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		<title>Christ is Risen in Lebanon</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 17:03:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[April 27, 2011 A flash mob in the Beirut City Mall sings &#8220;Jesus is Risen&#8221;. Hearing the joy of Easter in Arabic words and music reminds us that we must pray for the Christians in the Middle East &#8211; that they remain a strong witness to life and love. I thought this was really gutsy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">April 27, 2011</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">A flash mob in the Beirut City Mall</span> <span style="font-size: medium;">sings &#8220;Jesus is Risen&#8221;.</span> <span style="font-size: medium;">Hearing the joy of Easter in Arabic words and music reminds us that we must pray for the Christians in the Middle East &#8211; that they remain a strong witness to life and love. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I thought this was really gutsy in the middle of the Islam world in a country largely controlled by Hezbollah.  Makes me want to dance.<br />
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		<title>The Beauty of Mathematics</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 20:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>barb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[January 25, 2011 I posted this for your enjoyment and inspiration.  Just another way to look at our life in God.  I liked most of the music behind it, too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">January 25, 2011</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">I posted this for your enjoyment and inspiration.  Just another way to look at our life in God.  I liked most of the music behind it, too.<br />
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		<title>A Blessed Christmas</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2010 00:37:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>barb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a close-up image with added special effects that I took of my brother&#8217;s Christmas tree a couple of years ago.  I did some tinkering to create a custom-made Christmas Card &#8211; just for you readers. We are the ornaments hung lovingly on the Tree of Life by our heavenly Father, while Christ, the [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;">This is a close-up image </span><span style="font-size: medium;">with added special effects</span><span style="font-size: medium;"> that I took of my brother&#8217;s Christmas tree a couple of years ago.  I did some tinkering to create a custom-made Christmas Card &#8211; just for you readers. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">We are the ornaments hung lovingly on the Tree of Life by our heavenly Father, while Christ, the Light of the world, bathes us in His grace.  He brings joy and peace to all hearts who open themselves up to Him.</span> <strong><span style="font-size: medium;">No place is so dark that His light cannot penetrate. </span></strong><span style="font-size: medium;"> We are most beautiful in its rays.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">This is what I pray for the whole world &#8211; <strong>to know Him, love Him, and serve Him now and for eternity.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Emmanuel is here.  Jesus is here. </span><span style="font-size: medium;"> May He come again in glory soon. Merry Christmas and a very blessed New Year.<br />
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		<title>A Triple Good Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Dec 2010 19:13:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>barb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[December 14, 2010 Some days are just heaven sent.  Today is one and I&#8217;d like to share the joy with you. The sun is shining after days of cold and windy weather.  It feels sooo good to glance outside and see it. Last week I met a man at the therapy pool who hunts every [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">December 14, 2010</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Some days are just heaven sent.  Today is one and I&#8217;d like to share the joy with you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">The sun is shining after days of cold and windy weather.  It feels sooo good to glance outside and see it.<br />
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<div id="attachment_3271" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3271" title="Duck Hunting" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/duck-hunting-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Duck hunter at work</p></div>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Last week I met a man at the therapy pool who <strong>hunts every chance he gets and never comes home empty-handed. </strong> He said he had more Mallard duck breasts than he needed and also too much venison.  He got a couple of doe recently and is going out again with his nephew this weekend. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Today at the fitness center he brought me two duck breasts, a pound of ground venison, a venison steak and some frozen salmon he caught wild in Alaska this year. </strong>He also offered me a deer from this coming weekend&#8217;s hunting if he and his nephew get their limit.  Processing is only $75.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">This is such an enormous blessing because grocery prices are going through the roof and we don&#8217;t get a Social Security increase this year to cope with the situation.  I&#8217;ve been putting things in the Lord&#8217;s hands and He is not disappointing.<br />
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3272" title="Bowl of chili" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/bowl-of-chili-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="204" height="153" />The third good thing so far &#8211; the day&#8217;s only half over &#8211; is that <strong>the crock pot is full of my home made chili for dinner </strong>tonight.  Roger will be so happy to eat one of his favorite foods.  I used the ground venison the good man gave me today and some ground beef, too.  Already it smells great.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">How about you?  What blessings can you count for today?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="../2010/08/20/advancing-the-reign-of-christ-here-and-now/" target="_blank">V.  Praised be Jesus Christ!</a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">R.  Now and forever.  Amen.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">(Click on the link above to read why I am ending my posts with this.)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">P.S. Yesterday I posted on how to use the Google Wonder Wheel, the <a href="http://www.editingandproofing.com/the-easiest-idea-generating-tool-writers-can-use" target="_blank">Easiest Idea Generating Tool Writers Can Use</a> over at my editing&amp;proofing.com blog.  Just in case you&#8217;re interested.<br />
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		<title>Why Do You Write?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2010 20:55:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>barb</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[November 22, 2010 Today is the feast of St. Cecelia, the early Roman martyr who proved very difficult to kill.  She is the patron saint of musicians.  Music was a big part of my life for many years and St. Cecelia was always there in the background for me.  She was one of the first [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">November 22, 2010</span></p>
<div id="attachment_3151" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 212px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3151" title="saint-cecilia-stained-glass 19th century" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/saint-cecilia-stained-glass-19th-century-162x300.jpg" alt="" width="202" height="374" /><p class="wp-caption-text">St. Cecelia - 19th century stained glass window from Stationers&#39; Hall, London</p></div>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Today is the feast of St. Cecelia, the early Roman martyr who proved very difficult to kill.  She is the patron saint of musicians.  Music was a big part of my life for many years and St. Cecelia was always there in the background for me.  She was one of the first women saints I was introduced to as a child and has always been special to me. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Life changes, though, and rather than creating or making music, I now just indulge in my appreciation of it. Writing has become the dominant skill I use most often, but <strong>would you believe it, I really don&#8217;t like to write.  It takes too much discipline and I&#8217;m lazy. </strong>I&#8217;d rather discuss or talk than write.  <strong><br />
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;">What a terrible thing for a blogger to confess!  Seriously, <strong>I think of myself as a teacher, a trainer, an encourager, an information broker, and a perpetual student, but not a writer.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Although I&#8217;ve written two short business books, a weekly newspaper column for a business paper, many training manuals and programs, a monthly newsletter since 1999, and other stuff I&#8217;ve forgotten about, <strong>writing for me is a means to an end, not an end in itself. </strong> Perhaps that&#8217;s why I don&#8217;t think of myself as a writer even though I spend a lot of time thinking about writing when I&#8217;m not writing.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">So why do I do it almost every day?  <strong>Because I am driven to do what Pope John Paul II asked of Catholics &#8211; to use the new media to evangelize the world </strong>and<strong> writing is the only way I can do this now in my life. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Gone are my days of public speaking, conducting training, leading choirs and teaching children, although I still sometimes fantasize about giving talks on Catholic subjects.  No sense in looking back nor in wishing for that which cannot be.  <strong>Better to make the most of what is possible with Christ as the center of everything.<br />
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Faithful  Christians evangelize within the unique context of their past and present, their  talents, learning, behavior, their physical and mental capabilities.  <strong>We are all called to do this </strong>and  writing now has become my avenue of reaching out to others to share God&#8217;s love of all.  Most especially sharing how I suffer with joy since there is so much suffering in this world and there is no point in wasting any of it by failing to use it as a way to come closer to God.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>What about you?  Why do you write?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">If you are a blogger or some other kind of writer, why not write a post on this subject and link back here or leave a comment?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Thanks for visiting and God bless you.<br />
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<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="../2010/08/20/advancing-the-reign-of-christ-here-and-now/" target="_blank">V.  Praised be Jesus Christ!</a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">R.  Now and forever.  Amen.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">(Click on the link above to read why I am ending my posts with this.)<br />
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		<title>Bye Bye Mimosa</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Oct 2010 16:14:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[October 11, 2010 Southern Missouri&#8217;s climate usually blesses mimosa trees.  You find them all over the place with their delicate pink blossoms, airy leaves, and interesting shapes.  Growing up in Dallas we had one in the back yard outside my bedroom window. It was really lovely.  That&#8217;s why Roger and I planted one by the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>October 11, 2010<span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
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<div id="attachment_2745" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2745" title="mimosa tree  impressionist Painting 2" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/mimosa-tree-impressionist-Painting-2-300x213.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="213" /><p class="wp-caption-text">My painting of the mimosa tree as it was in July, 2009</p></div>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Southern Missouri&#8217;s climate usually blesses mimosa trees.  You find them all over the place with their delicate pink blossoms, airy leaves, and interesting shapes.  Growing up in Dallas we had one in the back yard outside my bedroom window. It was really lovely.  That&#8217;s why Roger and I planted one by the tool shed in our back yard about five years ago &#8211; <strong>partly because of nostalgia and partly because I just plain like them.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span></p>
<div id="attachment_2746" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2746" title="2008 ice storm-1" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/2008-ice-storm-1-300x272.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="272" /><p class="wp-caption-text">2008 ice storm</p></div>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">But&#8230;along came an awful ice storm in winter, 2008.  The poor tree had serious damage, however a tree expert said to give it another year or so to see if it would heal itself. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Well, you could say it did &#8211; partially.  <strong>But this spring we discovered the awful truth: the trunk was continuing to split down the middle, the crack stealing ever lower. </strong>Now you could stand on one side of the tree and see daylight clear through the trunk.  No way could the tree continue to support it&#8217;s branches.  Before long it would crack apart completely and break the fence.  Our neighbor&#8217;s car was in jeopardy in his driveway. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">This past Saturday another wonderful neighbor, who just loves cranking up his chainsaw, brought his six kids and wife over and we had a dismantling fest.  <strong>In twenty minutes what had taken five years to grow was twigs and logs.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">This tree was special for another reason &#8211; an elderly neighbor lady loved to see the tree waving in the wind above the honeysuckle-laden fence. </span><span style="font-size: medium;">Wandora couldn&#8217;t get around very well, but her eyesight was fine. </span><span style="font-size: medium;">We used to sit in her kitchen and chat every now and then. </span><span style="font-size: medium;">Two weeks before she died this May, she was again saying how beautiful the tree was.  <strong>I&#8217;m glad she enjoyed it so much while she was living and didn&#8217;t have to see it come down. </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Things of this world come and go.  People come and go in our lives.  Seasons come and go.  Sometimes even when we do our best, things die.  I&#8217;m glad we had the pleasure of the tree for as long as we did, and <strong>I&#8217;m especially glad my dear, old neighbor had pleasure in it, too.</strong></span><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong> </strong></span><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Wandora was a really smart, down-home, Oklahoma farm girl.  I miss both her and the tree.  <strong>But maybe God&#8217;s plan was to have us grow that tree so she would have something she really enjoyed looking at from her kitchen in the waning years of her life.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="../2010/08/20/advancing-the-reign-of-christ-here-and-now/" target="_blank">V.  Praised be Jesus Christ!</a></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">R.  Now and forever.  Amen.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">(Click on the link above to read why I am ending my posts with this.)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"> Thanks for visiting and God bless you!</span></p>
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		<title>A Real God-incidence</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 21:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[August 19, 2010 This has been a busy week which has included a 1 day trip in and out of St. Louis for my husband&#8217;s doctor appointment yesterday, so I have neglected my posting.  Although I&#8217;m really tired from yesterday, I wanted to write about a lovely experience I had this morning. Tuesdays, Thursdays and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">August 19, 2010</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">This has been a busy week which has included a 1 day trip in and out of St. Louis for my husband&#8217;s doctor appointment yesterday, so I have neglected my posting.  Although I&#8217;m really tired from yesterday, I wanted to write about a lovely experience I had this morning.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-618" title="water" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/water-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" />Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays are the times when I can get into the therapy pool at the rehab center.  There are a group of us &#8220;regulars&#8221; who come between the hours of 8:00 to 11:00 to do our various exercises.  It&#8217;s gotten to be an uplifting experience of support and encouragement for all of us who are so grateful for the chance to get moving with as little stress as possible.  We often speak of how much worse we feel if we miss our pool time.<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Today we were blessed with a newcomer who, due to family schedules, usually comes once a week in the evening.  She is a pre-teen in a wheelchair whose mom brings her and helps her to exercise.  With all her obvious physical limitations, nothing is wrong with her mind or her spirit.  She is everything I love about young people and more &#8211; she has the innocence, purity, open-heartedness and joy of youth, yet with a wisdom beyond her years.  <strong>This child bears a great physical burden with grace and God, is cheerful and outgoing, and does not fail to inspire. </strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">We spoke freely about our favorite Bible books and how life without God would be unbearable.  She mentioned how God tests us and proves us with our infirmities and how her sister encouraged her to visualize herself doing something she has wanted to do for some time. <strong> The ability to look forward and set goals for herself regardless of the grave challenges she faces, and to do it without a trace of self-pity or hesitation is a gift others with far fewer infirmities would do well to seek. </strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">The three of us, her mother, I, and the girl, agreed that our meeting was meant to be &#8211; a real God-incidence. I was pleased to tell of my great fortune of finding a natural health doctor in the area who also might be able to help her with certain aspects of her health conditions and happy that they both are also interested in holistic medicine.  We found we shopped at the same health food stores and chattered about how we dealt with our gluten sensitivities. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">I don&#8217;t know if we will see each other again, but my takeaway from today is that <strong>if we are where we are supposed to be, doing what we are supposed to do, God will send us precious moments like these where He reveals Himself in unexpected ways. </strong> Please pray for this remarkable young lady who lights up the place wherever she goes.  She is truly one who suffers with joy.<br />
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		<title>A Path to Holiness</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 18:49:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[July 5 2010 One of my favorite bishops in this country is Robert Finn of the Kansas City-St. Joseph diocese in Missouri.  On the feast of St. Josemaria Escriva at Our Lady of Good Counsel parish he preached a great sermon that reinforces the &#8220;Little Way&#8221; of St. Therese of Lisieux and &#8220;The Work&#8221; of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">July 5 2010</span></p>
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<div id="attachment_2067" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 253px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2067" title="St. Josemaria" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/St.-Josemaria-243x300.jpg" alt="" width="243" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">St. Josemaria Escriva</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">One of my favorite bishops in this country is Robert Finn of the Kansas City-St. Joseph diocese in Missouri.  On the feast of St. Josemaria Escriva at Our Lady of Good Counsel parish he preached a great sermon that reinforces the &#8220;Little Way&#8221; of St. Therese of Lisieux and &#8220;The Work&#8221; of St. Josemaria which is very like the &#8220;Little Way&#8221; applied to modern times in the world.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">When St. Augustine wrote that &#8220;Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee,&#8221; he was speaking of man&#8217;s search for peace, joy, and meaning in life. </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>These desires can only be fulfilled by the all-holy God who fills us with His holiness when we open our hearts to Him. </strong>As a practical matter, doing this is not easy because with all the cares of the world we often become side-tracked, chasing after everything else but God.  It is just this condition that makes St. Josemaria&#8217;s message so appealing for the modern person who is not called to the cloister, the hermitage, or the priesthood.  <strong>Holiness is for everyone</strong>.<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Here are some excerpts from Bishop Finn&#8217;s sermon:</span></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="color: #800080;"><span style="font-size: medium;">I know that one of the primary things that has attracted me to St.  Josemaria is <strong>his humble devotion, his fidelity to the Church at a time  when there was much upheaval, and his simple plan to help us see all of  our most everyday tasks and efforts, our daily work, as a path to  holiness&#8230;</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><span style="font-size: medium;">And he was given such a profound God’s-eye view of the way that ordinary  men and women, lay faithful, family men and women, and diocesan priests  as well, could be holy in accord with God’s plan: <strong>not by leaving the  world but precisely by living close to God in the world – and offering  all that happens, and all they do as a gift to God for the end of  sanctification&#8230;</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><span style="font-size: medium;">We can reach heaven surely and safely by being contemplatives in the  middle of the world. <strong>This is so important because, in fact it is the  vocation of probably 95% of humanity!&#8230;</strong><span style="color: #333399;">[<em>So important for the sick, suffering, disabled, and war-torn to understand.  Our lives are not useless or meaningless no matter what the politics of the day may say.</em>]</span><br />
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<p><span style="color: #800080;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Emblematic of the simplicity and depth of St. Josemaria’s vision for  holiness is <strong>the truth that God is our Father&#8230; </strong>[<span style="color: #333399;"><em>And trusting in Him is fundamental.  "Ours not to reason why, ours but to do and die..." - Kipling's "Charge of the Light Brigade".</em></span>]&#8230;</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2068" title="Donkey" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Donkey-300x232.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="232" />[Jesus] has a Father, and&#8230;we can call Him “Our Father.”&#8230;</span><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>this truth is not for a few.</strong> It is for all the sons and daughters. It is  for you and me. <strong>WE have a Father. We must never forget it. We must,  again and again, </strong></span><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">surrender ourselves onto His lap, into His arms&#8230;</span></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #800080;"><span style="font-size: medium;">We are, as St. Josemaria said, <strong>like God’s donkey,</strong> quietly pulling the  load and doing the work. [<em><span style="color: #333399;">Donkeys are beautiful (to me), dependable, and sure-footed.  One bore Christ into Jerusalem on Palm Sunday.  Being a donkey bearing the Son of God to others through daily work seems like a very good thing to me</span>.</em>]</span></span></p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">To read the entire sermon visit <a href="http://catholickey.blogspot.com/2010/06/we-have-father-we-must-never-forget-it.html" target="_blank">The Catholic Key blog</a>, written by the staff of the diocesan paper for Kansas City &#8211; St. Joseph.  I promise that if you liked these excerpts, you will like all the rest. </span></p>
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		<title>The Pope as Liturgist</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 00:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[June 25, 2010 The May, 2010 issue of Inside the Vatican published Vincent Twomey&#8217;s opening address for the first International Liturgical Conference on the theme Pope Benedict XVI and the Sacred Liturgy.  Held on Fota Island, Co. Cork, July 12th-13th, 2008, the conference marked a new beginning in the restoration of the Catholic sacred liturgy. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">June 25, 2010</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">The May, 2010 issue of <a href="http://www.insidethevatican.com/" target="_blank">Inside the Vatican</a> published Vincent Twomey&#8217;s opening address for the first International Liturgical Conference on the theme <em>Pope Benedict XVI and the Sacred Liturgy</em>.  Held on Fota Island, Co. Cork, July 12th-13th, 2008, the conference marked a new beginning in the restoration of the Catholic sacred liturgy.</span> <span style="font-size: medium;">Although this occurred two years ago, <strong>Twomey&#8217;s address titled &#8220;Pope as <em>Leitourgos</em>&#8221; is worth revisiting in light of the world&#8217;s current mad exaltation </strong></span><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">of every corrupt deviance in man which appears to be heading towards an explosive and disastrous crescendo.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Twomey first summarizes Pope Benedict&#8217;s commentary on Romans 15:16, which reveals St. Paul&#8217;s understanding of his own mission, quoting from the Pope&#8217;s sermon from the Solemnity of Saints Peter and Paul in 2008:</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #993366;"><strong>[Paul knows he has been called 'to be a <em>leitourgos</em> of Christ Jesus for the Gentiles, serving the Gospel of God as a priest, so that the pagans become an acceptable offering, sanctified by the Holy Spirit.'</strong> Only in this passage does Paul use the [Greek] word <em>heirourgein</em> &#8211; serving as a priest &#8211; together with <em>leitourgos</em> &#8211; liturgist.  Paul speaks of the cosmic liturgy, in which <strong>the world of men itself must become worship of God, an offering in the Holy Spirit. </strong>When the whole world will have become the liturgy of God, when in its reality it will have become adoration, then it will have reached its goal; <strong>then it will be whole and saved.</strong> <strong>And this is the ultimate objective of St. Paul&#8217;s apostolic mission and of ours.</strong> It is to such a mystery that the Lord calls us.  let us pray in this hour that he may help us carry it out in the right way, to become true liturgists of Jesus Christ. Amen.</span><br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">In this statement Pope Benedict identifies his mission as Pope with St. Paul&#8217;s mission.  Twomey then remarks that the above quote &#8220;sums up&#8230; the central concerns of the theology that Joseph Ratzinger had systematically developed over the course of his life as a theologian.&#8221;  He says that even when speaking or writing on other subjects, especially creation, <strong>&#8220;the liturgy found a central place in his writings.&#8221;</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1987" title="Pope Benedict incensing the altar" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Pope-Benedict-incensing-the-altar-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" />Twomey addresses a core point in the Pope&#8217;s theology:</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #993366;">The first account of creation in Genesis has nothing to do with <em>how</em> we were created (such as is proposed by the scientific theory of evolution).  its message, rather, is to convey to the reader <em>why </em>we were created.  According to Ratzinger, <strong>the cosmos has been brought into existence for one thing only: worship.</strong></span></span></p>
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<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #993366;">More precisely, <strong>God called the cosmos into being so that humanity could share in God&#8217;s Sabbath rest and hence experience that life is good, and that creation, especially humanity, is very good. </strong>In the Old Testament, creation and covenant form a unity.</span></span></p></blockquote>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #993366;">In other words, God created humanity so that he might enter into a covenant relationship with us, so that he might heal our infirmities and restore us to the relationship that he intended from the beginning of the world: <strong>union with him in Christ, the source of that joy which God intends for humanity and which is the object of the Church&#8217;s mission.</strong></span></span></p></blockquote>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #993366;">As Ratzinger reminds us, St. Paul expressed it in another way: &#8220;the whole of creation has been groaning in travail together until now.&#8221;  Paul was acutely conscious that <strong>&#8220;the creation itself will be set free from bondage to decay and obtain the glorious liberty of the children of God&#8221; (Romans 8: 21-22).</strong></span><strong><br />
</strong></span></p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">After making a number of excellent points about the Pope&#8217;s writings on the liturgy, he closes with this:</span></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><span style="color: #993366;">But the Pope&#8217;s concern for a true reform of the liturgy is also expressed in the care and attention he gives to every celebration of Holy Mass according to the new rite over which he presides as Pope.</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #993366;">Today he teaches the Church not only by words but also by example.</span></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #993366;"><span style="color: #000000;">As I was reading this address I couldn&#8217;t help being reminded of the core truth: that <strong>God created everything for the purpose of worship of Him.  Unless and until we are willing to fall on our knees before Him with a clear interior disposition of awe and reverence, we deceive ourselves about our own importance and power. </strong> Moreover, the sacred liturgy is the work of the Body of Christ, designed to bring us individually and corporately into a right relationship with God.  It belongs to no one individual but to the Mystical Body as a whole.<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #993366;"><span style="color: #000000;">I also thought of the nonsense put out by various gurus of positive thinking.  Things like telling people they should stand in front of the mirror and say &#8220;Every day in every way I am getting better and better&#8221;, and writing books with the theme: &#8220;Think and Grow Rich&#8221; and other topics designed to give the impression that we are our own masters.  These promisers of earthly success and delights enrich themselves while never pointing to Christ Who is our only true hope.  <strong>We achieve our highest calling when we lose ourselves in God in trustful surrender and praise.  Nothing else matters that much in comparison.</strong></span></span></span></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2010 21:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[June 18, 2010 Today the dryer quit.  In the middle of drying a particularly large load of clothes.  My wonderful husband is loading up the wet clothes and going to a public facility to finish the load.  Meanwhile, the repair guy can&#8217;t come until Monday. Time will tell the lesson God has in mind for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">June 18, 2010</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1933" title="cornbread" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/cornbread.jpg" alt="" width="160" height="120" />Today the dryer quit.  In the middle of drying a particularly large load of clothes.  My wonderful husband is loading up the wet clothes and going to a public facility to finish the load.  Meanwhile, the repair guy can&#8217;t come until Monday.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Time will tell the lesson God has in mind for this inconvenience.  Maybe we will have to buy a new dryer after 20 years and trust that God will give us the money for it.</span> <span style="font-size: medium;">Another opportunity to practice abandonment to Divine Providence.  The immediate opportunity is to practice cheerfulness.  I am so cheerful I just whipped up a batch of corn bread so Roger can have some to enjoy when he gets back.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">I have put all kinds of extras into cornbread, from jalapeño peppers, chili seasoning and grated Mexican cheese to blueberries and a little sugar.  Today I went the blueberry route because I had no </span><span style="font-size: medium;">jalapeños.  To stay gluten-free I used soy flour and a little whey protein.  The basic recipe came from my Mom&#8217;s very old Betty Crocker cookbook.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Rejoice in the Lord, always!  Again I say, rejoice. (Phil. 4: 4 &#8211; Introit for the Third Sunday of Advent.)<br />
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		<title>The Asparagus Bean Surprise</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 19:28:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[May 6, 2010 God really has ways of delighting us unexpectedly.  A couple of years ago I wanted  to put in an asparagus bed, but after reading about the work involved, the time for a bed to mature, and considering my health issues &#8211; and Roger&#8217;s, too, I gave up on the idea.  (Fibromyalgia and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>May 6, 2010</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">God really has ways of delighting us unexpectedly.  A couple of years ago I wanted  to put in an asparagus bed, but after reading about the work involved, the time for a bed to mature, and considering my health issues &#8211; and Roger&#8217;s, too, I gave up on the idea.  (Fibromyalgia and arthritis sufferers just can&#8217;t do a lot of digging, bending, and stooping for serious garden work.) A number of times since then I&#8217;ve thought about how great it would be to have asparagus out of our own beds and had to say, &#8220;Thy will be done.&#8221;<br />
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<div id="attachment_1656" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 170px"><a href="http://www.localharvest.org/asparagus-bean-seeds-green-pod-red-seed-asparagus-yard-long-organic-C3705"><img class="size-full wp-image-1656  " title="asparagus beans" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/asparagus-beans.jpg" alt="" width="160" height="160" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Asparagus beans. Also known as Yardlong Bean, Snake Bean, and Chinese Long Bean. A useful Asian import that is disease and bug resistant.</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Wouldn&#8217;t you know that God&#8217;s plans are always better than ours! </strong> This year in mid-April I went to Walmart to get plants for the garden.  Every year we&#8217;ve put bush beans into the Earthboxes® and into the ground and I&#8217;ve been unhappy with the paucity of the harvest.  No matter where we put them or how we treated them, the beans were just plain puny.  As I collected the various starter veggies this year, I saw something called an &#8220;asparagus bean&#8221; that the tag said &#8220;grows 15&#8243; to 18&#8243; long.&#8221; </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;Well, what do I have to lose? </span><span style="font-size: medium;">Same  amount of space and over 3x the amount of veggie.  A no brainer</span><span style="font-size: medium;">,&#8221; I thought, and picked up a packet.  It looked like they were similar to pole beans and I had already decided to switch to climbing beans I could train on the chain link fence.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">The beans went into the ground just fine and they look happy, having grown five or six inches over the past couple of weeks.  Today I finally got around to reading about asparagus beans and I really had to chuckle.  God gave us some real bonuses with these plants.  <a href="http://www.localharvest.org/asparagus-bean-seeds-green-pod-red-seed-asparagus-yard-long-organic-C3705" target="_blank">Local Harvest </a>says:<br />
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<div id="attachment_1657" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 225px"><a href="http://www.evergreenseeds.com/asbeanyarbea.html"><img class="size-full wp-image-1657" title="asparagus beans in blossom" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/asparagus-beans-in-blossom.gif" alt="" width="215" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Asparagus beans in bloom</p></div>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">Asparagus beans are <strong>easily grown, produce  heavily, harvest easily, thrive in hot weather, are slightly more  resistant to drought than snap beans and are tolerant of a wide  range  of soils. <span style="color: #800080;">[Music to my ears!]</span></strong> Grow in the same manner as pole beans or along a trellis, 8&#8243;  apart, 1&#8243; deep. <strong><span style="color: #800080;">[A chain link fence will have to do.] </span></strong>Sow in June <span style="color: #800080;"><strong>[we started early and will see how they work out]</strong></span> and make two or three successive plantings  about three weeks apart for a steady supply. HARVEST:  Harvest when pods  reach 12-15&#8243;, before the seeds fill the pods.  The mature beans may be  threshed or shelled from the pods and cooked in the same fashion as  dried beans.  Their flavor is like southern peas but with a drier, nutty  quality.  <strong>Young leaves and stems are also edible.<span style="color: #800080;">[What a deal!] </span></strong>FLAVOR:  <strong>Sweet and  mild resembling the combined flavor of asparagus, mushrooms, and beans. <span style="color: #800080;">[Hmmm...this should be very interesting!]</span></strong></span></p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">So I don&#8217;t get my asparagus, but maybe this will be tasty and enjoyable instead.  They cook up just like ordinary green beans and should be a great addition to our eating for wellness.  I have nine plants and if they live up to the description, we&#8217;ll have beans coming out our ears.  Thank you, Lord, with joy.<strong><br />
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		<title>A Little of My Story</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[March 5, 2010 &#8220;O Lord,&#8221; I prayed, &#8220;Help me to grow more patient and trust You more.&#8221; &#8220;Are you sure?&#8221; He asked. &#8220;Yes, Lord.&#8221; &#8220;Okay, I&#8217;ll give you fibromyalgia and everything that goes with it,&#8221; He said. &#8220;Whoa!  What is that, Lord?&#8221; I asked. &#8220;You&#8217;ll find out, and I&#8217;ll be with you every step of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">March 5, 2010<br />
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<div id="attachment_1214" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 351px"><img class="size-full wp-image-1214" title="Holy Trinity" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Holy-Trinity2.jpg" alt="" width="341" height="400" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Holy Trinity, 1430, Master of the Votive Picture of Sankt Lambrecht, Museum mittelalterlicher österreichischer Kunst, Vienna</p></div>
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&#8220;O Lord,&#8221; I prayed, &#8220;Help me to grow more patient and trust You more.&#8221;</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;Are you sure?&#8221; He asked.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;Yes, Lord.&#8221;</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;Okay, I&#8217;ll give you fibromyalgia and everything that goes with it,&#8221; He said.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;Whoa!  What is that, Lord?&#8221; I asked.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;You&#8217;ll find out, and I&#8217;ll be with you every step of the way,&#8221; He replied.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Six years or so ago when I was diagnosed my body was burning from the bottom of my feet to the top of my head.  I couldn&#8217;t stand to wear my glasses and couldn&#8217;t see without them.  Every morning I got up, dressed, had breakfast and promptly collapsed into bed again.  After awhile I gave up on dressing and stayed in my nightgown.  My mind was in a stupor such that I could hardly pray and I lay there simply clutching my rosary.  When I had a conversation with my husband I forgot what I wanted to say after three words were out of my mouth.  I gave up driving and stopped going anywhere except to church, which finished me off for the rest of the day. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">A couple of years went by and I found myself completely discouraged and wanting to go to bed never to wake again.  It seemed that everything the doctor told me to do and prescribed for me only helped marginally.  Yet as sick as I was, I never lost the feeling that this condition was God&#8217;s will for me, although I did think for awhile that maybe He might have picked a less unpleasant way to get His point across.<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">One day I said, &#8220;Well, Lord, I don&#8217;t get it.  Here You have smacked me over the head with a 2&#215;4 and I still don&#8217;t get it.  What is it you want of me?&#8221;</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;I want all of your pain and suffering.  Give it to Me with joy for the restoration of the Traditional Catholic Mass.  Give it to Me for the priest I have chosen to be your next bishop.  Give it to Me for the redemption of others and to expiate your sins.  Give it to me for My priests who are troubled,&#8221; He said.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;OK, Lord.  Whatever you say.  I want to do Your will.  But Lord, why did You have to teach me patience and trust this way?&#8221; I asked.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">&#8220;Because  you were too full of yourself and your talents and ambitions were misplaced. I could not work through you the way you were.  I want you with me for all eternity.  I want you to know and understand Me better, to trust Me more through your helplessness and pain and to share what you are learning on this journey with My other children who are suffering even worse than you,&#8221; He said.  &#8220;I want you up here on the cross with Me.  I want you to witness to My message of hope and love, and the joy that comes from doing My will.  I want you to understand the fullness of My love for you.&#8221;<br />
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<div id="attachment_1219" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://www.yunphoto.net/en/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1219" title="Morning sun over the sea, Shizuoka Prefecture" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Morning-sun-over-the-sea-Shizuoka-Prefecture-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Morning sun over the ocean, Shizuoka Prefecture, (c)Tomo.Yun (www.yunphoto.net/en/)</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">And so I didn&#8217;t give up, and after accepting two new hips from Him through a good surgeon, and after slowly regaining some physical and mental equilibrium from remedies He showed me through knowledgeable holistic practitioners, I started this blog and put it in His hands.  I blessed Him for giving me this miserable disease and for putting me through the added great pain of hip degeneration; for making me aware that I have to depend on Him for every breath, every blink, and every beat of my heart.  I blessed him for giving me a high maintenance body because I know He wants me to learn how to care for it properly and share what I learn with others. I blessed Him for showing Himself to me both through pain and through the many forms of beauty that reflect His being.  Most of all, I bless Him for loving me enough to have created me and for having put all the wonderful people in my life whom I would never have met had I not become disabled.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 20:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[February 11, 2010 Sometimes it is just too much to pray using books or even rosaries when people are ill.  But sacred art demands no effort from us in gazing upon it&#8217;s beauty. This window to the divine draws our spirit and sweeps us to prayer almost before we know it.  It teaches us the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">February 11, 2010</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Sometimes it is just too much to pray using books or even rosaries when people are ill.  But sacred art demands no effort from us in gazing upon it&#8217;s beauty.</span> <span style="font-size: medium;">This window to the divine draws our spirit and sweeps us to prayer almost before we know it.  It teaches us the truths of our faith wordlessly &#8211; a catechism in brush strokes, mosaics or sculpture.<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-989" title="51FTVzklm5L._SL160_" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/51FTVzklm5L._SL160_.jpg" alt="" width="122" height="160" /><code> </code><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000LAZE32?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=sufwitjoy-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B000LAZE32">Picturing Mary</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=sufwitjoy-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B000LAZE32" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> is a DVD I&#8217;ve had for some time and watch occasionally when I need calm and peace.  With today&#8217;s technology we can travel the world and see great images of her that date from very early Christendom.  Whenever I look at it something new strikes me and I am always left wishing for more. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-993" title="51W-+WWzYWL._SL160_" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/51W-+WWzYWL._SL160_.jpg" alt="" width="122" height="160" />The same can be said of the DVD,  <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001D0T4N0?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=sufwitjoy-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B001D0T4N0">The Face: Jesus in Art</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=sufwitjoy-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B001D0T4N0" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />.  We are privileged to see images of Jesus from the catacombs through the 20th century and note how he is pictured in many different cultures.  As many sections as this video has, it, too, leaves me wishing for more.<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Both of these were made for <a href="http://www.wnet.org/">WNET 13</a>, a New York public television channel.  Whenever I watch them I think what a great teaching aid they would be for home schooling families.  You can stop the video to demonstrate art principles and you can use it for art projects and appreciation.  But most of all, these videos inspire great love for Jesus and Mary through the artwork filmed.  I highly recommend them and have placed them in my store.<br />
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 16:55:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[February 5, 2010 A priest friend of mine suggested I add this gorgeous Carthusian blog to my blogroll.  The pictures are lovely and the short meditations wonderful.  I especially like their subtitle: Rejoice, because you have escaped the various dangers and shipwrecks of the stormy world. Rejoice because you have reached the quiet and safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: medium;">February 5, 2010</span></p>
<div id="attachment_959" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 360px"><img class="size-full wp-image-959" title="St. Bruno rule approved" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/St.-Bruno-rule-approved1.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="313" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Rule of St. Bruno approved by Jesus, the Blessed Virgin and St. Peter, fresco, Museo della Certoso, Milan</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">A priest friend of mine suggested I add this gorgeous <strong><a href="http://secret-harbor.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Carthusian</a></strong> blog to my blogroll.  The pictures are lovely and the short meditations wonderful.  I especially like their subtitle: </span></p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;"><p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Rejoice, because you have escaped the various dangers and shipwrecks of the stormy world. Rejoice because you have reached the quiet and safe anchorage of a secret harbor. -  Saint Bruno&#8217;s letter to his sons the Carthusians</span></span></p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">We are fortunate that men of deep prayer like the Carthusians exist and that we have a site like Sacred Harbor to bring their spirituality to us.  Following Pope John Paul II&#8217;s recommendations that the Church make better use of the media enriches us all.  Since it is difficult for most Catholics to have a spiritual director, we have to fend for ourselves.  Thank God for the opportunities He gives us with these kinds of blogs.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">If you love sacred art, you will love seeing the photographs of the <a href="http://www.certosini.info/immaginicertosine/thumbnails.php?album=66" target="_blank"><strong>f</strong><strong>rescos</strong></a><a href="http://www.certosini.info/immaginicertosine/thumbnails.php?album=66" target="_blank"> </a>of St. Bruno at Milan.  Sacred art and all true beauty aids us in suffering with joy for God.  Contemplating it is prayer.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;">*****</span></strong><br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-962" title="prayhand color" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/prayhand-color.jpg" alt="" width="130" height="199" />Another topic:</strong> I received an email from a friend which encouraged all people of America to  <strong>say a prayer for our country</strong> each night at 8:00 Central time.  This initiative is like the one Winston Churchill went on radio to promote in Britain during World War II when their country was bombed nightly by Germany. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Please invite all your friends to participate in this daily effort.  America must return to the principles on which she was founded or she will perish. Darkness already envelopes much of the world.  Let us plead before God that Christ reign in all hearts and that our individual lights lit by Him truly shine among men.  The best ammunition we have against the powers of darkness is prayer.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 19:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[February 4, 2010 Today we honor St. Jane of Valois, surely an example of humility, persistence in prayer and also great charity. She was born in 1464 and died in 1505. A daughter of King Louis XI and Charlotte of Savoy, she was hated by her father from birth because he wanted a boy. Not [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"> </span></p>
<div id="attachment_945" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 228px"><a href="http://catholicfire.blogspot.com/"><img class="size-full wp-image-945" title="Jane of Valois" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Jane-of-Valois.jpg" alt="" width="218" height="320" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">St. Jane of Valois</p></div>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">Today we honor St. Jane of Valois, surely an example of humility, persistence in prayer and also great charity.  She was born in 1464 and died in 1505.  A daughter of King Louis XI and Charlotte of Savoy, she was hated by her father from birth because he wanted a boy.  Not only did he not get a boy, Jane was sickly and had some physical handicap.  The king banished her to a country place where she was raised in a condition of grave neglect. But God had plans for His spurned and despised creature.  She developed a deep devotion to the Blessed Mother, especially in the mystery of the Incarnation.  The <a href="http://www.ewtn.com/devotionals/prayers/Angelus.htm" target="_blank"><strong>Angelus </strong></a>was her favorite prayer.  One day Our Lady revealed to her that she would found a religious community dedicated to her.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">St. Jane could not escape being a pawn in the hands of her father.  Although he despised her, in a political scheme he betrothed her to his second cousin, Louis, Duke of Orleans, at the age of two months. They were married when Jane was nine.  She remained his loyal and devoted wife for twenty-two years.  Unfortunately, the Duke did not return her devotion.  He had not wanted the marriage and hated her even though she was instrumental in obtaining his release from prison for treason.  Upon taking the throne as Louis XII, he publicly humiliated her by treating her ill in front of the court, repudiating her and seeking an annulment of his marriage from Rome.  He got the annulment on the grounds that the marriage had not been consummated and that he had not consented to it.  St. Jane saw this as a great blessing and used her situation to found the Order of the Annunciation.<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">The <a href="http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/03588e.htm" target="_blank"><strong>charism </strong></a>of her order is to practice the ten virtues of Our Lady as found in the Gospels.  They are:</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Pure (Mt 1:18, 20, 23; Lk 1:27,34)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Prudent (Lk 2:19, 51)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Humble (Lk 1:48)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Faithful (Lk 1:45; Jn 2:5)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Devout (Lk 1:46-7; Acts 1:14)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Obedient (Lk 1:38; 2:21-2, 27)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Poor (Lk 2:7)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Patient (Jn 19:25)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;"> Most Merciful (Lk 1:39, 56)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: medium;">Most Sorrowful (Lk 2:35)</span></li>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">St. Jane also charged her community to pray for her husband, her father, and her brother as her legacy.  Such forgiveness after the cruel treatment she received is awe-inspiring.  St. Jane would be a great patron to ask for help in mastering the virtue of forgiveness. When she died, she was buried with the royal purple and a crown under her habit. </span></p>
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<div id="attachment_946" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 492px"><img class="size-full wp-image-946" title="angelus" src="http://www.sufferingwithjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/angelus.jpg" alt="" width="482" height="400" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The Angelus, 1857, oil on canvas, Jean-Francois Millet</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">During St. Jane&#8217;s lifetime the Angelus prayer spread throughout France, helped by Pope Sixtus IV who was the first to attach an indulgence to it in 1475.  Devotion to this prayer continues today, and is enshrined in the great Impressionist painting of  Jean-Francois Millet (<span style="font-family: Verdana;"><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;">1814-1875</span>) </span>of the Barbizon school of landscape painting.  <strong> </strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>It is interesting that almost  two-hundred years after Pope Sixtus encouraged the praying of the Angelus a painter named Jean-Francois created a work expressing the devotion to Our Lady that St. Jane (Jeanne) of Valois, whose spiritual directors were Franciscans, practiced.</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">We cannot escape suffering in this world so we might as well profit from it spiritually as did St. Jane, who though queen, was humiliated repeatedly by the very people who should have loved and cherished her.  She is a great example of suffering with joy.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: medium;">If you would like to know how to pray the chaplet of the Ten Virtues of the Blessed Mother, go <a href="http://www.marian.org/mary/prayers/chaplet.php" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
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